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Speed Dating
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By Curt Smith
http://www.new-dating.com/search.php
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The Benefits Of Speed Dating
Before you completely dismiss the idea of speed dating, consider the following scenerio: You've worked hard all your life to get through university and then find a decent job to guarantee yourself financial stability. The problem is you never had time to meet or date women along the way. So now what do you do?
It's time to set your personal life in order and begin your search for the woman of your dreams and live happily ever after. However, the predicament is that you're 35 years old, and you still don't have the time to meet women, nor do you know where to start. Maybe it's time to consider the art of speed dating as a viable option.the clock keeps tickingBy 35 years old, most men -- those looking for a serious relationship -- no longer enjoy going out to dance clubs or bars to meet women. They feel that they no longer fit into the scene and that the women who frequent the clubs are just too immature, or they're leftovers with many flaws.
So like most men, you skip the bar scene and look to the most common alternatives used to meet women: blind dates and personal ads. The good thing about these services is that they allow you to screen and search for the ideal person that best suits your interests while remaining anonymous.
Of course, the joy of anonymity has its downsides too. That hot, lawyer babe you meet online could turn out to be Billy-Bob -- a freaky mechanic from Arkansas. In fact, false advertising is probably one of the biggest complaints people who use personals have.
The problem with blind dates and personals is that they do not satisfy a very crucial requirement needed in order for two people to hit it off and see each other again: physical attraction and chemistry.
That's because in the case of personals, you don't actually meet the individual in person until later on. This requires you to invest a lot of your time with a person that you might not be attracted to. Or in the case of a blind date, you waste time with someone you're simply not interested in, out of sheer courtesy.back to basicsPeople are beginning to realize that attraction depends on more than just a description or picture of a person, but also through the way two people interact with each other.
Physical appearance and chemistry play important roles in the initial stages of dating. Even though we tend to demote its importance for fear of sounding superficial, someone's appearance does play an important role in the decision of wanting to see them again.
First impressions are really everything; unfortunately the aforementioned alternatives don't provide this initial necessity. Hence I propose an unusual yet very effective solution. Speed dating.
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By Curt Smith
http://www.new-dating.com/search.php
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