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Your First Email
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For men: Your looking through the pictures on a popular dating site and come across a sexy girl you like. You look at her profile and think, ‘wow, we got things in common’.
So what do you do now? The first email you send to her is probably the most important email, because, if she doesn’t reply, you don’t get a date
So what do you put in your first email? From personal experience, this comes down to science, art and confidence - especially art! I’ve read about guys on dating sites that use the same ‘first email’ time and time again with huge success. Where did this ‘first email’ come from?
Well, over a period of time, through alot of trial and error, they have developed a simple email, probably just a few paragraphs long (maybe three), that conveys a positive, interesting image of them-selves - this is important!
Anyone can do this. As you test it on different girls, you can fine tune it. Also, it just becomes a simple template that you can modify to suit other girls’ profiles. Remember your goal is to get a date, so you can get to know her better.
Some info about creating your first successful email:-
It must be positive – no negativity at all!
Keep it simple, about two paragraphs (no more)– she does not want to read your life story!
If you can, add a little bit of humour. In the email above I use ‘and I’m sure you’ll get in touch – wink wink’. It’s a touch cheeky and humorous.
Never brag! It's a BIG turn off for women - modesty and honesty is best policy!
Make your-self sound interesting - everyone is interesting to some degree. No-one wants to meet a bore!
Don’t focus too much on her looks, show more interest in her profile.
For women:
Your ‘flicking’ through the pictures on a dating site and come across a hunky guy you like. You look at his profile and think, ‘wow, we got lots of things in common’. So what do you do now? The first email you send to him is probably the most important email, because, if he doesn’t reply, you don’t get a date. Some girls don't like making the first move, I think this is a bit old-fashioned. If you like some guy's profile, email him!
So what do you put in your first email? From experience, this comes down to science and art! I’ve read about guys on dating sites that use the same ‘first email’ time and time again with huge success. Where did this ‘first email’ come from?
Well, over a period of time, through trial and error, they have developed a simple email, probably just a few paragraphs long, that conveys a positive, interesting image of them-selves.
You can do this too. As you test it on different guys, you can fine tune it. Also, it just becomes a template that you can modify to suit other guys’ profiles. Remember your goal is to get a date, so you can get to know him better.
Some tips about creating your first email:
It must be positive – no negativity!
Keep it simple, about two paragraphs.
If you can, add a little bit of humour - men love it!
Make your-self sound interesting. No-one wants to meet a bore!
Don’t focus too much on his looks, show more interest in his profile
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