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No Time For Me
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My boyfriend and I are always arguing because of his lack of time. When he started his business our relationship became so dull because we didn't see and talk to each other like before. I'm asking for a little of his time, but he said that I don't understand his situation; that he is too busy. I gave him time to adjust but this situation has been happening for a year and I cannot take it anymore. I'm thinking of breaking up, but I can't do it because I still love him. What should I do? How can I tell him that time is very important in a relationship? I feel that his business is more important than me. I need attention and I need his time. I want things to be like before. Please help. -No Time For Me
Dear No Time For Me,
First, I would definitely try and talk with him about it one more time. There's nothing wrong with a last ditch effort. It does seem a little unreasonable that he is continually putting his business in front of you. When you talk to him explain exactly how you're feeling. Try to offer some type of compromise. Maybe you could help him in someway with his business or hobbies. The more you have in common the more time you will be able to spend together. If none of this works in your situation you'll have to make a decision about whether to continue this relationship. Look down the road into your future. If this is how he is now, how will things change if you ever become more seriously involved? Is this an example of how he views his priorities? If he has a family, will he put them first or his work? Can you live like this for another year or even more if there isn't a change? Things will never be like they were before, but hopefully you can both come to some agreement on making it better than it is now. Things change and we either change with them or we move on to something else. What you need to do is figure out which direction is best for you, regardless of the feelings attached.
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