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Secret Turn-Ons For Guys
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Tina L. Jones
http://www.new-dating.com
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Do you know what the biggest turn-ons for guys are? Do you think you could turn on any guy at any time? Are you interested in a guy but don't know what to do next to get his attention? Well, you might be surprised to find out that although guys have a different way of thinking than girls, the turn-ons for guys really aren't that different! Read on to find out 3 secret methods that will work every time.
Have you ever seen a guy who was good looking and drove the nicest car with the latest cell phone? Then, when he opened his mouth, you realized that he was really lacking self-confidence and just had the other things to cover it up?
When it comes to women, the same concept applies-looks aren't anything without confidence. You can be the most beautiful woman in the room but if you're stuck against the wall and don't make eye contact with anyone, than the okay-looking woman with the bubbly personality and self-assurance is the one that is going to get all of the attention. In short, confidence and poise are definitely turn-ons for me.
Why is this?
Well, for one thing, men don't tend to gravitate towards needy women, or women that are desperate. Self-confident women do not give off that vibe so they are attractive in this aspect. A man looks at a self-confident woman and thinks that he won't have to walk on eggshells around her or constantly have to build her up. As a matter of fact, he likes the fact that some of her confidence slides over to him. Men, after all, can suffer from low self-esteem the same way that women can.
One key to being self confident is to not be afraid to speak your mind. Don't ever feel that you have to hide your intelligence from a man. If you're listening to a conversation and you know something about the subject then by all means, jump in there. Men will find it attractive that you are in the know and they will respect that. Those that won't are probably not the kind of men that you want to get involved with anyway.
Another important key in self-confidence is sensuality, not to be confused with sexuality. Sexuality can be blatant, while sensuality can be subtle. With an overtly sexual woman, she might reach over and begin kissing a man during dinner. A sensual woman might lightly run her fingers down his arm. This gives a man some mystery, and some excitement about things that might come later.
Confidence alone is one of the biggest turn-ons for guys. Use your confidence to help you approach men, talk to them, and later use your sensuality.
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Tina L. Jones
http://www.new-dating.com
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