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Kruzman
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What Am I Doing Wrong In Relationships
Break-ups are becoming way too common and happen to everyone at some point in time. I have included some basic issues that men and women need to consider before entering another intimate relationship.
1. Thinking you can change who he is.
Many women get involved with men with undesirable habits, and cling to the relationship hoping that he’ll improve with time. They tend to feel like the man requires the woman's help in order to change. The woman puts up with the bad and hurtful behavior in hopes that marriage may change who he is. The best test for a relationship comes when stress and crises come about in a relationship. You can see the core personality and essence of a partner during these times. Their actions and reactions will provide much insight as to how they will respond to children, finances, and emergencies. Gut feelings are well and good, but it’s better to trust your intuition instead.
2. Assuming good looks are enough.
Do not assume that men only care about an attractive physical appearance. Also, many women think that men aren't very verbally communicative. Therefore many women resort to using provacative body language to gain a man's attention which gives off the wrong impression. The combination of verbal, emotional, intellectual, and physical qualities are needed for total chemistry to occur.
3. Acting like someone that you are not.
Men will not find happiness in a relationship if the woman isn't happy herself. A woman should never lose herself by trying to satisfy a man's every need and desire. A man can't have respect for a woman that isn't confident of who she is. Do not wait on him hand and foot or constantly act in provacative ways to attempt to please him. If he or she demands something that you are not, the relationship will most likely not work.
4. Not seeing the signs.
Throughout my blog, I have written on the signs and personality types of hurtful people. Do not be fooled as the signs of abusive and demanding behavior will surface in many cases. How one takes responsibility and atones for hurt in relationships does reveal much about his or her character.
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