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How to be mr. Right
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By Victoria Holmes
http://www.new-dating.com/search.php
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I'm sure that at some point or another during the course of your lives as bachelors, you've all heard a group of women going on about how they can't seem to find any "nice, sweet and sensitive" men out there. I'm also sure that some of you actually tried to become said Mr. Sensitive, thinking that you would thus prove to be irresistible to the ladies. To your great dismay, it didn't work... suddenly, you found yourself surrounded by more women than ever before, and yet you weren't getting any more action. Frustrated, you probably wondered what the hell was going on.
I'll tell you: there's a difference between what most women say they want Mr. Right to be, and who Mr. Right actually is -- in other words, the myth and the reality of Mr. Right. Below, I have outlined some of the most widely cited traits of Mr. Right and whether or not they hold water. So read on and find out how to really become the man that women can't resist.
mr. sensitive
Many women say they want a sensitive man who is not afraid to constantly express his emotions -- a.k.a saying "I love you" ad nauseum -- and is in tune with his "feminine side," whatever the hell that means. Basically, a man who doesn't act like one.
However, the reality is that this type of man will eventually drive any woman up the wall -- there is definitely such a thing as being too sensitive. That does not imply, however, that we want an insensitive boar who insults us or is mean to us in any way. So what do we want? A comfortable medium: a man who is neither too sensitive, nor insensitive. For instance, it's okay for our man to cry if a close relative passes away, but not during the 20th rerun of An Affair to Remember.
Similarly, while we do want a guy who is there for us, deep down, we also crave a little mystery. So know when you should be there for her, and when you should go out for a night with the guys. Like, if she calls you crying because she's had one of the worst weeks of her life and you act like you couldn't care less, that's just not cool; but don't be at her beck and call either. You get the idea.
knight in shining armor
If you're into hard-core feminist chicks, skip to the next point; otherwise read on. Contrary to popular belief, the age of chivalry is alive and well. While women don't want an oversensitive sap, we do want a gentleman. Once again, it's about balance. If you try too hard to impress us, we will get turned off; but if you open the door for us and pour our wine at dinner, you're on the right track.
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By Victoria Holmes
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