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Satisfying Relationships
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Building Mutually Satisfying Relationships
It doesn’t matter if you are trying to improve your personal relationships and re-ignite passion or your workplace relationships to improve your performance, the solutions are the same. Flip your thinking so you can get rid of the old norm and operate in the 21st Century norm.
REPLACE old thinking about the way things were when you were younger with what works in today’s society and economy. Relationships must be mutually satisfying, fulfilling and supportive. This is true in marriages and employee/employer relationships.
RESPECT is the fundamental principle and the foundation for all successful relationships. It is the only behavior of choice for equally balanced relationships. If you make a commitment to someone, keep it – you are showing respect for the other person. IF YOU WON’T OR CAN’T, DON’T COMMIT. This is a huge problem in today’s well-intended over-committed society. The inability to keep commitments will eventually lead to resentment, anger and indifference.
RAPPORT is created by finding ways to connect with each other and building a bond that will take you through the good and the difficult times in the future. Work at keeping the communication lines open – this is the only way to maintain balanced healthy relationships.
RESOLVE old conflicts so they can no longer fester and infect the relationship causing it to wither and die. Then remember to keep those old conflicts buried. Do not continue to replay them in a continuous loop, attacking, accusing or demanding; instead look out for each others well-being.
RESTORE the core values and beliefs your relationship was built on. Truth, commitment and loyalty are fundamental for strong relationships. TRUST IS THE REASON WHY MOST PEOPLE STAY CONNECTED. If things aren’t working, go back to the core values of your original relationship. If there weren’t any, find the ones you can use now to improve your relationships in the future.
To help you further energize supportive balanced relationships locate the southwest area of your living/family room. Using a Feng Shui supportive energy principle, place in that area something that represents equal balanced relationships such as a picture of a family gathering or a victorious sales team where everyone is happy and celebrating; a large bouquet of silk flowers with each flower representing a different relationship or perhaps picture on the wall exhibiting good interpersonal relationships will also work. You will stay focused on building and maintaining healthy relationships at home and at work.
Flip your thinking and adopt a 21st Century attitude of accepting the new norm to help you re-engage, re-energize and regenerate your passion, perspective and performance in all your relationships.
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Pat Heydlauff. Online dating service for international dates. Join us for free and find someone special!
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