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Art of listening
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Don Diebel
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One of the easiest ways to get single women to like you is just simply by paying attention to them.
And the best way to capture her attention is to revolve your conversation around the things that she is interested in. People in general tend to pay attention to the things that interest them and block out the things that hold no interest to them.
Just the act of paying lots of attention to your date will reap enormous rewards. The more you pay attention to her the more she's going to feel important and valuable.
Just the opposite of this can get you in a lot of trouble and cause you to lose favor from your date. If you pay no attention to what she's saying, guess what's going to happen? She's going to assume that you're not interested in her and she may become angry because you're not interested in what she has to say.
Maybe I shouldn't be saying this, but fake it if you have to. Pretend you're interested in what she has to say out of courtesy and respect. People don't like to be ignored.
Let me give you a simple dating tip that is the key to paying attention to your date. The art of paying attention is to listen intently and carefully to what she is saying. This will go a long way in building trust and respect and getting her to like you and feel comfortable with you.
Another tip I want to share with you is during your conversation don't spend all your time concentrating on what you're going to say next or what you want to say. When you do this your mind will tend to tune out what she is saying because your mind is so busy thinking of what you're going to say next. Focus first on what she's saying and give it your undivided attention.
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Don Diebel
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